Monday, May 9, 2011

Why does the word “ Friends “ have the word “ ends “ in it ???

Why does the word “ Friends “ have the word “ ends “ in it ???

Friendship – The greatest sweetener of human life. Am sure nobody is gonna doubt on this statement. I was watching Friends this evening and I got a strange thought in my mind why does this word “ Friends “ have “ ends “ in its last part. I was wondering who would have made this word and why he must have created this word in this manner. But as I thought further I came to a conclusion that this “ends” from the word friendship is not actually the end, its actually the beginning. The beginning of a lot of things. This blog of mine is dedicated to all my loved friends. Love u all.

So now you must be wondering how end=beginning. Herez how. The friends which we make in life are of many types. Some which are just acquaintance, some whom we enjoy being with and some with whom we enjoy being with and also like to share each and every aspect of our life. I may be wrong but this is how I categorize my friends. These 3rd type of friends r the ones who have a special place in your heart. Now you would say whats this special “thingy” and all. (Just a diversion frm the blog speaking abt this word “thingy”, one of my very close friend has this habbit of using this word, donno from where she has found out this word.) Special place and all is always for gf’s and bf’s or for wife’s and husband’s so ye friends kaha se aagaye……. But you know what these people will always be there for you and you would talk to them everyday, but friends hmmm its difficult to talk to each and every friend everyday and telling him / herall about your life specially if you are not in the same city. Hence the name “friend” because distance ends this everyday masti and faltu talks. Everyone go on to live their life, career, money, marriage, kids and what not !

But mind you these distance would never end this strong bond of friendship. Rather it strengthens them. Some wise man has said “The more you are away from your loved ones the more close you go to them”. As the song says “Durriyaan bhi hai Zarrori, Zarrori hai yeh durriyan” is very much true. So how is it the beginning? It is the beginning of the new bond, yes the unbreakable Covalent Bond :P I name it as “LoveFriends” ;). I know this sounds silly but its just smthing what I call and I don’t care what people think abt it. This bond is as powerful as the Husband-Wife bond or a GF-BF bond. If we have lovefriends, we know it that someone somewhere is there who not always, but thinks about us many times, who cares about us and would be there for us when we need them. To conclude it is the beginning of a more mature friendship.

To all my lovely friends, always be in touch, Love u all J

7 comments:

  1. Amol Mane.....u rok man...wat thots...abe aasoon to sab laathe hain likhke...tune toh smile laa diya dost... :) n yea I like "Lovefriends"..n the best line from u "I don’t care what people think abt it"....n lov the mention of "thingy"...overall 'Joy to read'

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  2. well and just wen i thought that college has ended n distances might creep in, u shoot this... :).. Love the "Love-friends" concept.. n m lucky 2 have my set of love friends n I cant thank enough god for them.. :).. Love the simple and sweet description Amol.. Gud work wit this thingy.. :P

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  3. Awesomee blog :) Loved each and every word of it :)

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  4. U rock Amol :) Seriously :) love friends concept is awesome :) Nd its sooooo true esp for ppl like me who r bad in keepin contact thru chat/call :) The love friends r those whom we keep remembering even though we may not b in constant touch :) Love u bro and all the love friends :):)

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  5. Awesome blog amol... everything u wrote here is so so true buddy... we all feel the same way and we all wish for each other the same way :) .. hoping to meet US (Tarras) soon...

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  6. Read this after 9 years and all the memories just flashed infront of my eyes. Best memories ever ! Thanks all.

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