Monday, May 9, 2011

Why does the word “ Friends “ have the word “ ends “ in it ???

Why does the word “ Friends “ have the word “ ends “ in it ???

Friendship – The greatest sweetener of human life. Am sure nobody is gonna doubt on this statement. I was watching Friends this evening and I got a strange thought in my mind why does this word “ Friends “ have “ ends “ in its last part. I was wondering who would have made this word and why he must have created this word in this manner. But as I thought further I came to a conclusion that this “ends” from the word friendship is not actually the end, its actually the beginning. The beginning of a lot of things. This blog of mine is dedicated to all my loved friends. Love u all.

So now you must be wondering how end=beginning. Herez how. The friends which we make in life are of many types. Some which are just acquaintance, some whom we enjoy being with and some with whom we enjoy being with and also like to share each and every aspect of our life. I may be wrong but this is how I categorize my friends. These 3rd type of friends r the ones who have a special place in your heart. Now you would say whats this special “thingy” and all. (Just a diversion frm the blog speaking abt this word “thingy”, one of my very close friend has this habbit of using this word, donno from where she has found out this word.) Special place and all is always for gf’s and bf’s or for wife’s and husband’s so ye friends kaha se aagaye……. But you know what these people will always be there for you and you would talk to them everyday, but friends hmmm its difficult to talk to each and every friend everyday and telling him / herall about your life specially if you are not in the same city. Hence the name “friend” because distance ends this everyday masti and faltu talks. Everyone go on to live their life, career, money, marriage, kids and what not !

But mind you these distance would never end this strong bond of friendship. Rather it strengthens them. Some wise man has said “The more you are away from your loved ones the more close you go to them”. As the song says “Durriyaan bhi hai Zarrori, Zarrori hai yeh durriyan” is very much true. So how is it the beginning? It is the beginning of the new bond, yes the unbreakable Covalent Bond :P I name it as “LoveFriends” ;). I know this sounds silly but its just smthing what I call and I don’t care what people think abt it. This bond is as powerful as the Husband-Wife bond or a GF-BF bond. If we have lovefriends, we know it that someone somewhere is there who not always, but thinks about us many times, who cares about us and would be there for us when we need them. To conclude it is the beginning of a more mature friendship.

To all my lovely friends, always be in touch, Love u all J